
Todd Solondz poignantly sums up the emotional state of a war torn nation  in his latest film Life During Wartime, a sequel to the director's  Happiness  which revisits the same cast of characters, played here by  different  actors - a brilliant device that aptly sumps up the degree to which  the  world has changed since 1998. Life During Wartime is the most   observant and relevant American movie of the year, a film that dares to  suggest  that you forgive and attempt to understand those who have  wronged you - a notion  that, in the years following 9/11, is even more  foreign to popular consensus  than the Middle Eastern nations that our  media spends so much time demonizing.  Empathy is dying, and Life During Wartime is a moving, challenging  attempt to resuscitate it.
Seeing  my home as a warzone on September 11,  2001 was a key moment in my life  that awakened me to a world beyond my day to  day existence as an  adolescent in New Jersey. One image that sticks out in my  mind is  seeing people in the Middle East celebrating the attacks on the news,   realizing that there are people out there in the world who hate us very  much,  and then came the more unsettling notion that perhaps they have  good reason to.  It was a true revelation, and it's a moment in time  that I keep going back to as  the true formation of my political  worldview. I bring this up because I feel a  similar shift has occurred  within the films of Todd Solondz since September  11th; his first few  features (all of which I at least admire) are more or less a  portrait  of New Jersey as Hell on Earth (The Garden State is, for whatever   reason, indie cinema's favorite go-to hellhole), analyzing the manner in  which a  largely upper-middle class society is, in its own way, as  bourgeois as the upper  class elites. He criticizes, at times brutally,  middle class entitlement, while  also attempting to reveal the darker  side of humanity, which he argues is not as  sequestered as we would  like to believe. However, in his last two features,  instead of bitterly  highlighting America's dark side he has challenged his  audience to  sympathize with characters society says we should hate - and though  I  don't think this shift is entirely due to 9/11, the attack has left a  clear  mark on his subsequent work.
I was not a fan of Happiness,   perhaps Todd Solondz's most well known film, which I found to be cruel  and  condescending towards virtually all of its main characters for the purpose  of making a  pedophile and rapist (here played by Ciaran Hinds, giving  what may be the best  performance of the year thus far) the most  sympathetic character in the film's  warped ensemble. Happiness  is centered around a trio of sisters, and  his portrait of them - Joy, a  free spirit whose work is reforming criminals;  Trish, whose highest  aspiration is being a middle class wife and mom; Helen, who  is a  prototypical suffering writer - is harsh and critical to the point that  it  comes off as resentment. He is contemptuous of Joy's desire to heal  the world,  even playing the fact that she is drawn to a pervert (who  she winds up marrying,  the beginning of Life During Wartime  reveals) toward the end of the  film as a cruel joke; he is contemptuous  of Trish's desire for normalcy, and he  punishes her for this desire  for complacency by making her seemingly normal  husband a pedophile; and  he is contemptuous of Helen's sanctimonious bohemian  suffering,  painting her as ultimately shallow in spite of her lofty artistic   aspirations.
However, this resentment has given way to a profound  understanding in Life During Wartime - what was cruelly ironic in  Happiness  is cast in a tragic light here, and the opening scene, which  depicts  Joy and her husband Allen out to dinner to celebrate their anniversary,   establishes this. It is an echoing of the opening scene of Happiness   (which featured Jon Lovitz in one of the most memorable cameo roles  I've ever  seen, playing Joy's boyfriend Andy), right down to the detail  of Allen giving  Joy an ashtray identical to the one that Andy gave her  in the opening of  Happiness. This sets the stage for the  theme of history repeating  itself - as Joy sings in the titular song  later in the film, "We made a  mistake/It's just like Vietnam". The  players change, but the game stays the  same. 
 And though he has a different face all these years later,  Allen is the same as he was in Happiness  (when he was played by Phillip  Seymour Hoffman) - still a pervert,  still using drugs, still making elicit phone  calls to strangers - and  this revelation (if it can even be classified as such)  is what prompts  Joy to spend some time apart from her husband, and she travels  to  Florida to be with her divorced mother and her sister Trish. The film  makes  constant visual parallels between Israel and Florida, depicting  The Sunshine  State as a haven for spirituality, specifically Judaism.  In spite of attempting  to escape her problems, Joy is still haunted by  the past - she walks out of her  bed one night and goes to a restaurant  where she is haunted by a vision of Andy  (here played by Paul Ruebens,  in a stunning and unforgettable channeling of  Lovitz's performance in Happiness),  whose suicide she blames herself  for. Though the fact that she can't  heal these broken spirits is a cause of  endless distress for her, she  should have realized long ago that people never  change, no matter how  much we want for them to and no matter how hard we try.  She brings this  anguish on herself.
When we catch up with Trish, she is  in the midst of finding romance (with Welcome to the Dollhouse's  Harvey  Weiner, making Solondz's filmic world a true universe of its  own) for the first  time since her marriage to Bill the pedophile, and  when we first see her she is  in the ecstasy of newfound love - and this  may be the first time Solondz has  allowed his characters true  happiness, however fleeting it may be. As Trish sits  at lunch with  Harvey, she exclaims "You're just so... normal!" with a beaming  smile  on her face, and it's this same characteristic that Solondz painted as a   damning flaw in Happiness. Yet viewing this statement in  context with  the ordeal she suffered through in the previous film, who  can blame her for this  desire for normalcy, the only thing in life she  has ever aspired to? These first  two sequences with Trish and Joy rhyme  one another, showing them both in  restaurants attempting to bury the  scars of the past and, at the very least,  appear normal.
Shortly  after this we are introduced to (or reacquainted  with) Trish's son  Timmy, who is on the verge of his Bar Mitzvah and, in his mind  at  least, becoming a man. Solondz's richest portrayals are often of  children, as  he perfectly captures feeling as though your future is a  void, and living in a  time when the future of the world is equally  uncertain only serves to compound  that anxiety. Timmy Maplewood may be  Solondz's greatest achievement yet, because  as he is living a  relatively carefree, privileged existence in his Florida home,  a  classmate discovers the truth about his father (whom he thought was dead  most  of his life) on the internet - and this discovery, naturally,  creates an  identity crisis in this young man. He runs home, tears  streaming down his face,  confronting his mother with what he's learned  at school - was dad really a  pedophile? If so, what am I? He  desperately cries out "I don't want to be a  faggot!" - a perceptive if  unsubtle observation on the way youth, and our  culture in general,  demonizes homosexuality - as though being gay and wanting to  fuck  children of any gender are even remotely comparable, and his mother   'reassures' him that he is not a faggot, though she's probably trying to   convince herself as much as she is trying to convince Timmy.
As  this is  happening, Bill is being released from prison, and Ciaran  Hinds beautifully  captures the essence of a broken man attempting to  re-enter society in a largely  wordless performance. He expresses this  profound sadness through body language:  through his eyes, through  facial expressions, through the most subtle of  gestures. We are  immediately reminded of Bill's heinous crime (if we could ever  forget  it), when he makes eye contact with a child on the street, and forces   himself to walk right passed him, attempting to fight desires that he  knows are  wrong. He checks into a hotel and looks over his wallet that  he last saw over a  decade ago, and this detail helps reinforce the  theme of living in a world that  has changed so radically - the last  time he saw his driver's license the World  Trade Center was still  standing. There were still levees in New Orleans. A black  man had never  been President. We were not engaged in any large scale wars. The   economy was good. It was, if not a simpler time, certainly a time when  the  United States was more dissociated from the problems of the world -  and it was  this idyllic bubble that Solondz's early films were such  scathing critiques of.  Though he has his freedom back, Bill is thrust  into a world he no longer  understands, if he ever understood it at all;  a world that he has no place  in.
Bill tracks down his family  and breaks into their Florida home when  no one is there, observing  details of the life that has passed him by while he  was rotting away in  a jail cell. He looks at the pictures on the walls of the  Maplewood's  Florida home not as though they are family, but as though they are   strangers, which they may as well be (and, again, the recasting  reinforces this  sentiment). This life that could have been literally  haunts Bill - he has a  recurring dream in which Timmy is the central  figure, a simultaneously beautiful  and troubling visualization of  Bill's tormented psyche. He walks up the stairs  to his son Billy's room  - Billy was an adolescent during the events of  Happiness -  and he walks into the bedroom of your typical college man:  messy, hemp  and music posters on the wall and, most importantly, a college  calendar  on the wall - Bill's next destination.
Next, we catch up with   Joy, who got sick of her mother and decided instead to fly out to Los  Angeles to  visit her estranged sister, Helen. Though the portrait of  all the other  characters from Happiness is considerably more nuanced  and sympathetic in this  picture, Solondz still has little use for  Helen, who is now living an unhappy  life as a Hollywood screenwriter.  Though she lives in a mansion littered with  awards, she is still a  brooding negativist, and in a brilliantly ironic image,  she laments  what a terrible, war torn world we live in while sitting beside her   swimming pool and while her personal chef prepares her dinner behind  her. This  is certainly an attack on the Hollywood establishment that  Solondz remains on  the outskirts of (he is a true independent),  criticizing the fact that they  pander to leftist sentiments while  living an insulated and privileged existence  - and Solondz hammers this  point home when he frames Helen against a portrait of  an Israeli war  tank in her living room. While Helen is moralistically screaming  about  how "We are still a country at war!", as though we could forget, Joy is   writing a song that attempts to sum up what it really means to be a  country at  war: a time to forgive, a time to forget - a time to  understand those that have  been labeled our enemies.
Solondz  challenges the notion of forgiveness  and empathy by asking us to  understand perhaps the most warped of human beings:  a pedophile. During  a dinner when Timmy and Trish's other children finally meet  Harvey,  they see Timmy standing outside, looking contemplative and distressed.   Trish urges Harvey to talk to him, as Timmy is clearly bothered by  something -  he's writing his Bar Mitzvah speech on the concept of  forgiveness, and this has  caused him to seriously consider what it  means to forgive and how far you take  it. Do you forgive someone who  punched you in the face? Does it depend on the  reason? How about a  pedophile? What if a terrorist bombs your office building -  do you  forgive him? This line of questioning causes Harvey and Trish to toss  out  a plethora of Bush-era cliches: terrorists aren't people. They hate  our freedom.  They hate democracy. They aren't like you and me, and  other such insanity that  we've been expected to swallow as  justification for the nonsensical and heinous  wars that the United  States is currently involved in. With this challenging,  bold sentiment,  Solondz connects his portraits of suburbia as hell to a larger   political context, thoughtfully contemplating the essence of forgiveness  - not  just as a buzz word, but the spiritual essence of moving passed  the wrongs that  you have suffered at the hands of others.
This  is the point in the film  where Trish's overzealousness with respect to  pedophilia takes on a tragic  ramification - it manages to ruin a  relationship of hers for a second time.  Timmy requests a few words with  Harvey in private, like he is the over  protective father making sure  this would-be suitor is good enough for his  daughter. Since his father  hasn't been around and his brother has been off at  college, Timmy has  viewed himself as the "man of the house" and acts  accordingly. Timmy  asks Havey, point blank, if he's ever had sex with a boy -  and Harvey  realizes that this is just a wounded, confused boy who has lacked a   father figure most of his life, and goes to give him a simple hug. He  remembers  his mothers oft-repeated warning - that if a man ever touches  him, you scream -  and screams at the top of his lungs. When Trish  barges into her son's room, the  fate of Harvey and Trish is implicit -  it's simply not meant to be.  Unfortunately, this is the world we live  in, where we're so afraid that someone  is a child molester or rapist  that even the most innocuous of contact between  adult and child is  expressly forbidden. Sometimes all a child needs is a  hug.
The  film brings us to Billy's college, where he and a group of  friends are  having a contest: who has the most fucked up family? Billy refuses  to  participate, for obvious reasons, and goes to his dorm room to be by  himself,  when he hears a knock at the door. He is understandably  shocked when he opens  the door to find his father, who inhales some  scattered candy that Billy has  littered on his bedside table and chugs a  bottle of water that Billy offers to  him. He came for one reason, and  one reason only: to make sure that Billy didn't  turn out like him, as  he can't live with even the vaguest suspicion that his son  may have  also become a pedophile. Bill hates himself for who he is, has tried to   cure himself, has tried taking medication, "Nothing works", he  dejectedly tells  his son, and this sequence - a tragic family reunion  that reopens the deep  wounds of the past in a direct, straightforward  manner - is likely amongst the  most heartbreaking moments you are going  to see in a movie this year. Solondz  captures this moment in all its  awkwardness and sadness without resorting to  sentimentality or cliche.  As he walks out the door, he tells his son to "Keep  pretending, like  before", and Billy pleads with him to stay - in this instance,  Billy  has ceased to see him as the pedophile who fucked up his family and his   life and sees him as only his father. As quickly as he came, he is gone  - like a  ghost (the past haunting the characters - literally and  figuratively - is a  recurring motif).
Timmy's Bar Mitzvah serves  as the film's climax, which  brings all the central characters  together. Though this is nothing more than a  party for all the other  people attending (Solondz hilariously sums this up with  a brilliant use  of a techno remix of "Hava Nagila"), Timmy views the Bar Mitzvah  as a  spiritual experience, a genuine morphing of child into adult, and he  leaves  his own reception to go find Harvey and apologize for his  terrible mistake.  Instead he finds his son Mark (who, in Welcome to the Dollhouse and  Palindromes,  essentially serves as the mouthpiece for Solondz's  worldview), begins  to sob, and apologizes profusely for his terrible mistake -  he was,  after all, still a child; he didn't know. Even if Harvey is a pedophile   (which Mark assures him he's not), Timmy reasons, that doesn't mean he  shouldn't  be allowed to get married and live a happy life. However, the  accusations of  pedophilia have deeply wounded Harvey, and he is moving  to Israel - a Jew  escaping persecution. In this sequence, Timmy is  simultaneously more an adult  and more a child than he has been in the  entire film to this point, at once a  human being who has come to truly  grasp the concept of forgiveness (coming to  understand it through the  spiritual experience of his Bar Mitzvah), and a child  simply yearning  for his father, who he fears is now dead, "for real this time".  As  Timmy declares "I just want my father", the ghost of Bill Maplewood  walks in  the background behind him, disappearing into eternity - a  moment that, I must  confess, devastated me as few moments in any movie  have. Solondz simultaneously  makes you hate and love Bill Maplewood,  making him an impenetrable yet entirely  sympathetic character. The evil  other - the type of person that the media so  often oversimplifies as a  'monster' - has been so powerfully humanized that his  death is truly  tragic, and only Solondz could create these complicated, almost   contradictory feelings. Solondz makes you understand (if not forgive) a  person  who has committed amongst the most unfathomable atrocities  imaginable, and  Solondz seems to be suggesting that if we can  understand him, then we can  understand anyone.
In the two  features he has made since 9/11, Solondz  has evolved from a perceptive  (if somewhat snarky), sharply critical observer of  American society to  one of the most sensitive artists currently working in the  United  States. His notions of forgiveness in a time of terrorism, war, and   recession are truly daring, especially when most American entertainments  pander  to our biases and hatred of one another - I struggle to name  another American  film where a pedophile is anything other than a  villain, a purely evil character  whose purpose to reinforce a black and  white view of the world (even at its  worst, Solondz's worldview is  certainly never black and white). Life During  Wartime is the most beautiful prayer for peace since Spielberg's  Munich, and Solondz, like Spielberg, challenges us to rethink, reflect,  and forgive - and it's a challenge I'm not sure we're up to.